Past Enlightment and Forgotten
As I prepared myself for the 2nd Sex and the City movie, coming up this years May, I couldn't help to get my eyes fixed once again to re-watch the 1st Sex and the City movie again via my DVD.
As older people said, you always find something new whenever you read or watch the same old thing over and over again. Sometimes, you even remember the things you want to learn previously, yet you put them back and lock them up inside your brain.
Same goes here... I watched Sex and the City Movie for the 4th time yesterday night (thanks for being "insomniatic") and there was a part; about Miranda's marriage with Steve. They wanted to get divorced because Steve slept with other woman (he owned up though), yet they can't pushed away the fact they still do love each other. They seek help from a marriage counselor and she said something, which I already knew and in the name of God, that's what I have been doing all these while, dealing with my past relationship. She knew and pointed out the fact that they, both still love each other and that they needed some space to re-think if they still want to be together. And when they do, they have to forgive and move on with their new life.
I don't know if I should call that silly. But as I continue, watching... the scene... as if it was mirroring my life that I had gone through, except that I'm unmarried and no kid. I truly realized that all those while, even though I was going through pain when my boy friend caught cheating on me (and not only I caught him, but so are my friends), but... i loved him too much that I decided to stay put, forgive him and move on, as if nothing bad happened. But ... oh, well... Truly, the reason I shared this is... The thing about forgiving and move on, only works when both people who are truly and sincerely in love with each other, worked things out together. When everything works, only then I will dare to say that their love is strong. And their love is real. Just like Miranda and Steve, who want to work out their marriage. It's simple... It's not because of Brady (their son), but for the sake of love, they knew they want to be together. And unfortunately, for me, being with someone who even want to break up with me despite his fault, when I found out he brought another woman home, it's clear enough that the person I had loved and always forgiven him for what he had done... was not into me at all and it's saddening to know how weak his love was.
I am happy to understand the meaning of love and fight hard for the love, I believed in. And to the women, out there, who thinks that you can never find love, I just hope that you will be patient. For those, who already have found love, remember to learn how to fight for the things you love, for the person you love, treasure him or her and last but not least learn to forgive your loved ones and move on. Just make it work. Make it work, in the name of Love
Love
Leoda
As older people said, you always find something new whenever you read or watch the same old thing over and over again. Sometimes, you even remember the things you want to learn previously, yet you put them back and lock them up inside your brain.
Same goes here... I watched Sex and the City Movie for the 4th time yesterday night (thanks for being "insomniatic") and there was a part; about Miranda's marriage with Steve. They wanted to get divorced because Steve slept with other woman (he owned up though), yet they can't pushed away the fact they still do love each other. They seek help from a marriage counselor and she said something, which I already knew and in the name of God, that's what I have been doing all these while, dealing with my past relationship. She knew and pointed out the fact that they, both still love each other and that they needed some space to re-think if they still want to be together. And when they do, they have to forgive and move on with their new life.
I don't know if I should call that silly. But as I continue, watching... the scene... as if it was mirroring my life that I had gone through, except that I'm unmarried and no kid. I truly realized that all those while, even though I was going through pain when my boy friend caught cheating on me (and not only I caught him, but so are my friends), but... i loved him too much that I decided to stay put, forgive him and move on, as if nothing bad happened. But ... oh, well... Truly, the reason I shared this is... The thing about forgiving and move on, only works when both people who are truly and sincerely in love with each other, worked things out together. When everything works, only then I will dare to say that their love is strong. And their love is real. Just like Miranda and Steve, who want to work out their marriage. It's simple... It's not because of Brady (their son), but for the sake of love, they knew they want to be together. And unfortunately, for me, being with someone who even want to break up with me despite his fault, when I found out he brought another woman home, it's clear enough that the person I had loved and always forgiven him for what he had done... was not into me at all and it's saddening to know how weak his love was.
I am happy to understand the meaning of love and fight hard for the love, I believed in. And to the women, out there, who thinks that you can never find love, I just hope that you will be patient. For those, who already have found love, remember to learn how to fight for the things you love, for the person you love, treasure him or her and last but not least learn to forgive your loved ones and move on. Just make it work. Make it work, in the name of Love
Love
Leoda
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