Fav Movie: 2012

This is the fav movie of the year 2012.
I should say that there are many different meanings in this movie.
It taught me to treat each day as if the last day of my life; To cherish our loves ones and to cherish everything we have in front of us.

In this movie, yes... I did cry... The main casts starring in this show, are the divorcees couple, who already moved on with their life, only to realize, in the midst of anguish, difficulties and adversities, especially when they have to face the natural disasters; facing the end world, that they still love each other. Some other couples in the shows, who couldn't have the chance to escape from the natural disasters keep their love together so strongly... Until today... I can't understand today's society. Is it so easy? to go their own way without thinking how hard it is for them to be together in the first place? After so many hardships they gone through together, why is it so easy to fell apart over small issues? Is it because we are living in the place, where we are all so protected? comfortable? where we can take everyone around us for granted?
Do we have to be in the position, where our life are put in the line... where we can only count down on what's going to happen with our world next?... just to treasure and understand what love is?

My friends always scolded me for giving my love 100%. I give myself everything so willingly as if there is no tomorrow. Keep him, despite him doing all the wrong things to hurt me. Doing all the things I can do to pamper him and all. But it's just me. I always live in the time, as if there is no tomorrow. I keep unhappy feelings and always try to make things work for the fact I know love don't come easy. It's really hard to find someone you love and that person to love you back. It's not easy to find someone, you truly have the chemistry with. It's hard to find someone, you know you can be open with and it's not easy to find someone you are so willingly to let go some of the things you loved to do , just to be that someone.

I used to have a friend, who lost his loved one. The one he treasured so much. I am thankful that he told me that the next girl, he truly loved, he is going to treasure her so dearly. They got married recently and gosh, i really can see the changes in him; how he treasures each day with his wife. Every time, when I meet him for coffee, he always talked about his wife. "my wife this...", "my wife that.."... Envy. I really envy the woman.

I mean... this is all Love about; As IF your whole world is only about him or her. You will always want to talk about him. You are all grateful about whatever good things she or he did to you. Living blissfully. Giving in... Loving each other as if there is no tomorrow and there is no one else to come in between.

I am thankful today that I have friends to go through my difficult period now.... just like how I used to be their listening ears. But just as I am loved to be a listening ear, I want to be with someone who will listen to me too. Treating me as if there is no tomorrow too. Just like how I treat them like there is no tomorrow. Be it in friendship, love and family.

Let's us treat each other as if there is no tomorrow. Cherish the one, who you truly love, knowing they loved you so dearly too. As I have mentioned... its never easy to find someone, you truly loved, truly having that Chemistry with. Don't let go.... of the person, you have beside you right now; who have gone through so much shit from you, YET she/he is still willing to go through it with you by faith. Talk is Cheap and free. Actions matter most. If you knew, they meant it, keep it. Love is not words... it's feeling and feeling, which is acted out. You can see and definitely, you can feel it. Don't make the same mistakes as I do though... Being with someone (in the past), who only know how to talk and do the talk. In short... Talk Cock. (Lol)... I don't know how to say this... But 10 years of experience is enough to see, what is love to keep and trash to be thrown away.
Isn't saddening, to know that once you were with someone you are so close with, but in the end of the day you only find out you are only friends, who communicated with each other via e-mail as if, you are worst than just a friend.... it's sad... a couple who love each other and the man, who constantly trying to tell you that everything will be fine and all those beautiful pictures he promised and all gone like a bomb like a bombing of hiroshima and nagasaki.... Sad!

Love,
Leoda

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