My BirthRight

Once upon a time ago; 27+ years ago-to be exact, a young baby girl was born into this world. Being a Leo and a cocky rooster, she was not quite any one of them in fact, except, vanity and a little bit prideful in whatever things she does. Despite "supposedly there" characters in those zodiac and horoscope, she thought she was born to love and live to please others, to satisfy others like her parents, teachers, relatives, friends as well as her love ones and nothing else. She thinks nothing about leadership, power, being political and never even think about her own destiny and future; career(except being a good housewife-well there is nothing wrong but it does ruined her life).

Started working as a part-timer since she completed her N-Level, falling in love with a guy, whom she thought she was going to spent the rest of her life with, landed her in her choice of her bad future. At the same time, of course, under the influence of her family, who wanted her to pursue what they called it "great" course for a "great great" career for an "excellent-ly great great great" future; Engineer.

For 10 years, this girl grown up to become a woman, who achieved nothing; one job after another and living to please people to the other. For 10 years, the woman living in world, where she thought as long as she was making other people happy, she was and is happy.I took pity on her for being so confused and going a whole round this gigantic cirlcle which cost her bright future, she didn't even know what she really wants in her life but to have a man who truly loved her as much as she loved her man. When bad things happened, she only knows how to shut her doors from the rest of the world and stop. Little did she knows that the clock never stop ticking; time never wait.

But she woke up one day, discovered that living for herselves, making herselves happy, loving herselves and caring for herself are the most important thing in life. So that, in return, she can blessed others; care for others, loving other people around her and help them. She is 27 + and she hopes that she can turn back time, yet she was also enlightened that despite thinking "how gd to be able to turn back time", she wanted to fight on and move on and manifests whats within her and the dreams she has been wanting to achieve.

She knows her birthright to be happy; to choose what she wants in her life and not what others expect her to be. It's her birthright to manifest what she has... Manifest her hidden talents and capabilities to love others in return. Only then, she will be happy.

She hopes this message will also help others, who have yet found the things they really want in life. But for sure, she urges people to love themselves first, only then they can love others.

Love,

Ben-Leo

(Ps: I once heard a speaker who used to say that, whenever you are on board, on any plane and when the crews are demostrating the safety rules, you will never hear them saying, "please put the breathing mask onto your children first, then put yours" BUT "Please put on your oxygen mask First, then help your children to put on theirs.")